Value-Based Networking

For college students and young professionals, networking can seem overwhelming, transactional, and gross – even though it has never been more important for internships, jobs, and finding mentors.

Value-Based Networking changes the paradigm of networking: instead of asking “What can this person do for me?”, start by asking “How can I provide value to them?”

(And yes, even a college kid using Value-Based Networking can provide value to a CEO.)

And done the right way, AI can make networking easier, too. AI can reduce the administrative work that networking requires, so anyone can spend more time doing what AI can’t: building strong relationships.

In a brutal job market, students and young professionals do not feel ready to network

Most networking advice is about events. Go to the mixer, work the room, collect business cards. It turns people into checkboxes instead of relationships. Students and young professionals can feel that, which is one reason so many of them avoid networking.

AI has made looking for a job even more miserable. Anyone can send a hundred messages and applications that look personalized, and everyone receiving them can tell.

51%
of Gen Z feel underprepared for the social interactions networking requires.
Express Employment / Harris Poll · 2026
12%
of Gen Z use networking to find jobs, compared to 33% of Boomers.
iHire Multi-Generational Workforce Report · 2025
42%
underemployment among recent college graduates, Q1 2026.
NY Fed Labor Market Tracker · 2026

A new way to think about networking

Transactional
Will this coffee chat turn into an interview?
Value-based
Did I leave this person glad they took the meeting?
Transactional
How do I get them to pass my resume along?
Value-based
What can I offer before I ever ask for anything?
Transactional
How do I get this person to hire me?
Value-based
How do I become someone this person would actually want to work with?

What a session looks like

Small Things That Make You Easy to Network With

Small Things That Make You Easy to Network With

How to Make an Executive Feel Like They Matter

How to Make an Executive Feel Like They Matter

AI can make networking easier and more human (but usually doesn’t)

AI can eliminate much of the work that makes networking feel exhausting, so people spend less time researching and more time talking to people.

The challenge is that few people know how to do this.

I teach students how to use AI without sounding like AI, and how to automate the repetitive work that keeps them from actually building relationships.

Teaching AI to Stop Sounding Like AI

Teaching AI to Stop Sounding Like AI

Automating Gratitude

Automating Gratitude

Built for students and young professionals

Every student and cohort is different. I’ll tailor the workshop to individual or groups of students, from a single 60-minute session up to a semester-long series.

Students learn how to
  • Get more responses to cold emails
  • Build rapport during conversations
  • Make a great first impression on Zoom
  • Turn contacts into mentors and sponsors
  • Stay top of mind over months and years
  • Use AI without sounding like AI
  • Automate your networking prep and follow-up

Past presentations

Fall 2024 and Spring 2026
University of Notre Dame
Spring 2026
Chicago Booth School of Business

If you have ever thought, “I should probably be taking networking more seriously, but I don’t know how to do that without feeling like a slimeball,” this will be a great event for you. It reframed how I thought about networking and is full of actionable advice.

Will · Booth Evening/Weekend Student

This is gold.

Nish · Booth Evening/Weekend Student

Not a natural networker

Adam Newman

My name is Adam Newman, and I’m an introvert who struggled with traditional networking events. I built a different approach to networking focused on providing value first and creating better outcomes for everyone involved.

Since 2017, I have worked with and lectured to Notre Dame students, mostly liberal arts majors who emailed me cold asking how to turn a political science degree into a job. I recently formalized my talks, habits, and tips as Value-Based Networking.

Let’s talk